How do you tell a girl you dont like her even tho you fancy her?

Dweedle · Feb 19th 2010, 7:55am

Well theres this girl at my course and well.. shes good looking.. funny and got a smart mouth(one of my favourite traits heh)

Thing is I think she likes me and well I like her but I dont want ANY sort of relationship because it is a risk to my current goals(Money).

So how do you say you dont like them in that way when you do like them in that way? any advice? never legitimately fancy'ed anyone before.. very inconvenient.

isitso · Feb 19th 2010, 7:58am

If you don't like her, then don't speak to her. If she advances on you tell her you don't like her and you find her repulsive. Money is more important.

Aannddyy · Feb 19th 2010, 7:58am

Dweedle wrote:

I dont want ANY sort of relationship because it is a risk to my current goals(Money).

Tell her that.

Dweedle · Feb 19th 2010, 8:00am

if I said I value money more than any relationship it would hurt her feelings. look I actually DO like her its just I dont want to be in any sort of circumstance that will effect my money.. I want to be gentle about this because she keeps hanging around me all the time..

She has a great ass tho.. but nonetheless I need to focus on Financial gain and not Chicks.

isitso · Feb 19th 2010, 8:02am

That's just too bad, life isn't fair. Your priorities are money related so you will have to make sacrifices like this.

Dweedle · Feb 19th 2010, 8:03am

Hmmm well how would I say im not interested without causing too much hassle.. last thing I want is a pissed off women to deal with

isitso · Feb 19th 2010, 8:05am

Just avoid being around her.

Dweedle · Feb 19th 2010, 8:10am

isitso wrote:

Just avoid being around her.

Too difficult.. might as well lock myself in a closet at the training centre lol

isitso · Feb 19th 2010, 8:13am

You're a big boy now. You shouldn't be terrified of a woman.

schmedes2 · Feb 19th 2010, 2:47pm

isitso wrote:

You're a big boy now. You shouldn't be terrified of a woman.

brilliant

TheFreedomFighter · Feb 19th 2010, 3:00pm

I would still hookup with her. thats just me. Learn to emotionally remove yourself from sex lol. Or you could do the respectful thing and if it comes to it just let her know you have no interest in a relationship

LostPostcards · Feb 20th 2010, 7:26am

Just tell her you're not looking for anything serious right now.

Badd Spella · Feb 20th 2010, 9:14am

Honesty is always the best policy. I suggest going up to her and telling her about the situation you're in because you never know, maybe she'll wait for you to be done?

Fabregas · Feb 20th 2010, 6:46pm

I don't understand fully; you like her, you want to be with her, BUT you want to make/save money. Is that it?
I think you should give her a chance, you might never find a girl as good as her that likes you :).
Best way to lay her off easy is to tell her you don't want a relationship right now but you still want to be friends. :rolleyes:

Good luck mate

Fii_Rose · Feb 20th 2010, 7:11pm

Honesty is the best policy ... tell her nicely but truthfully, however I'm not quite seeing how dating a girl is more expensive... o.0

Cass Cass · Feb 21st 2010, 1:37am

just tell her no. lie.?

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